A few weeks ago at work I received this email:
Emails like this one don't come around too often, but that doesn't
make it any less reverent. We're a small company with young employees,
so to have an event like this occur is both unfortunate and jarring.
Recently Kevin, our Director of Communications, has been diagnosed with Amyotrophic Lateral Sclerosis, or ALS.
ALS, also known as Lou Gehrig's disease, is an upper
and lower motor neuron disease, which not only affects the actual
muscles but the coordination of those muscles. This means the patients
can't do something because he or she doesn't have the strength, or
because they're lacking the coordination. Daily tasks like buttoning
shirts or cutting food can be very tough.
Fortunately for Kevin, he is
very early in the disease and is still living very normally. He does
some things a little differently and has lost a lot of upper body
strength, but is adamant that while he may have ALS, ALS does not have
him. You're probably thinking, "That's impossible, Kevin's
huge! A machine! Terminator-like!" but even Terminators may need some
help from time to time. =) Don't worry about offering your assistance; Kevin said he will gladly take it and even welcomes it.
As you can imagine this has been a very difficult couple of months for Kevin
and his family, but knowing a definitive diagnosis actually provides a
bit of relief. After months of tests and appointments there's finally a
solid prognosis. There are definitely good days and bad days, but for
the most part his spirits remain extremely high as ever. He said, "If
you see me wearing a track suit and drinking a smoothie, it was probably
a rough morning. ;o)"
Kevin's decision to have me
alert all of you is an example of his courage, optimism and drive. I'm
incredibly proud of him for having the strength to be open about this
disease and his experience. It's probably not surprising, but the more
you talk about the disease the easier it becomes to deal with. Both Kevin
and I completely understand how difficult it is to come up with a
response when someone drops this kind of news in your lap. Trust me
folks, there is no script for this kind of stuff, and if there were I'd
include it in this e-mail. Promise.
However, I would ask that you do not respond directly to this e-mail to offer condolences; a Reply All stream is not appropriate in this situation. Kevin
welcomes any questions, concerns and words of encouragement, either in
person or via e-mail, but doesn't want to pressure anyone into saying
anything if you're not comfortable. This is pretty heavy stuff but it's
really important to Kevin that everyone know the facts. "After all," he said, "I spend more time during the week with you guys than I do my family."
Please join me in congratulating Kevin on his courage and positivity during this rough time. He's a trooper and we're glad to have him as part of the company.
In wanting to do my part as well, I just signed up to run for RUN4ALS in this years marathon on October 7. Please help me help Kevin by donating as much or as little as you wish at: http://run4als.kintera.org/chicago2012/rachliberty
Thank you all so very much.
Best,
Rachel
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